SPEAK YOUR MIND!

So here is what im annoyed at... men! of course what else. if there are any men reading this let me give you a few pointers in dating. women would REALLY appreciate it...

• Don't date unless you have time for it
• Don't intorduce us to your parents if you don't want anything serious
• Don't say you aren't interested in dating other people when clearly you are
• Don't stop calling without any explanation
• Don't keep a problem to yourself - talk about it
• Don't only think of yourself

• DO have enough balls to wanna end something instead of leaving me thinking: what just happened????

I mean really is there a point to not calling because quite frankly, when i say ill call you back, what i mean is.... I'LL CALL YOU BACK!!! i mean i know that women mature faster than men, but when ya get into your 20's or 30's its just expected that you are at that mental level to be able to handle relationships. as women, what we really want is closure. It may be a little difficult to understand but we actually want you to just be straight up and say, "hey you know what this is just not working for me" or "let's go our seperate ways". you know what my response would be: ok, no problem best of luck to ya. some women might wanna know why, and i mean give them what they want. in their eyes things are going perfect and there are no issues so maybe they want some justification. That uncomfortable feeling that comes with the explanations will only last for as long as the conversation. after that you can have a guilt-free conscience and the woman can get on with her life. its a win...win!


when you dont give any reasons, the woman is thinking, my god, i hope he is ok, did he get into an accident? what could it be?!!! never for one minute thinking he just isnt interested because you haven't given her the impression you aren't into it, on the contrary u keep saying how you really like her.bottom line guys, just be honest and stop being so selfish!!!
gosh.. as a side note if you are a guy reading this and you havent done any of the things ive just talked about then sorry for the generalization. if you have then for gods sake stop!!!
as for the girls who have gone through this,
ill tell you what a very close friend of mine told me to say to myself: NEXT!